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Moving Out

Another chapter of my life is just beginning, and I don't quite know what to think about it.  My fiancé and I have officially got ourselves an apartment, and we're moving in mid-August.  We haven't lived together since Scotland, where we met, so having our own place to share will be a new adventure, and hopefully a good one. 

 

I've had such fun, interesting news from my friends lately.  One of them is moving to Prince George for a boy - a girl I never thought would move anywhere but for her own motives.  Another is moving in with her boyfriend, a step towards a larger commitment.  Another friend has found a possible Post-Doc position in Ireland for when she finishes her PhD.  And here I am, planning a wedding and trying to build a home.

 

We'll be short for money, I think, but we'll make it work.  Neither of us are big spenders.  I think really, the overall sensation is relief.  Relief that things are moving, changing.  After so long playing limbo, there's a real satisfaction in seeing a way forward.  And of course... just a touch of excitement.

 

Wonder what colour I should paint the walls...

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mmm- I remember!! We were essentially broke but we figured, broke living separately or broke together...

we cobbled together second hand stuff, repurposed things and actually had a nice looking little place with sunny windows and a backyard for our puppydog.  Geez we were broke.    But I wouldn't change anything.  Ok, maybe use my older mature brain for knowing how to cook & buy food better, and also my newish love of thrift stores.  What a difference that would have made!
 

Paint the walls whatever colour you want!! Because you can!! Hurray!

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Thanks so much Birthstone!  I'm getting really excited about it too, and other than clothes, we both love thrift store deals.  (He has a personal thing about wearing clothes someone else has worn, but he's pretty cool with everything else).   

 

It's actually super exciting to hear people who were in our situation, and are now happy and settled and lucky to have everything they didn't.  It gives me hope and makes me smile.