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Feeling lost

Where to begin?  This might be a bit of a ramble, so bear with me. :) I will try to be succinct. I am in an extremely unhappy place in my life. Let me see. It all started about 7 1/2 years ago - around the time when my first son was born, just after I was married. My husband started a job that he initally LOVED but quickly grew to hate it. I mean, ABHORE it. He was never a happy-go-lucky kind of person, but during his 5 years at this position, he turned into a person that I didn't marry. He was someone else.

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Wondercafe conference

People have tossed around the idea of a wondercafe conference or gathering.

 

I am posting this thread to allow us to weave in & out of the idea

 

Some of the things that come to my mind are:

a) what is unique about wondercafe and contributors that would be interesting to others

b) what would the conference look like? would it have lanes similair to the discussion topics

c) what location would make sense 

d) funding  / costs / challenges

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Going back to an ex when you both learned what happened

Hey everyone, greetings from Thailand ... Have a question for you all!

 

 

Just got out of a 3 year relationship 3 months ago and we both like each other a lot but there was some issues in our past relationship that made us break up. Now since we have graduated and travelled we both have matured and figured out what we did wrong.

Knowing that i figured out what happened and still love him deeply should i go back to him and pursue our life? Or just let him go?

 

Cheers

 

:)

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Seek first to understand, then to be understood

In a different thread, I suggested that a poster " moves to  solution, before listening to the questions, or thinking / dialoguing."

 

This thread will be an attempt to dialogue on that item, and so, I pulled one of the 7 habits of highly effective people as a topic.

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Back from our trip!

Hi all.

 

Well, it  really happened.   Love really *is* love and off we flew on our prize winning trip.

 



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Will an agnostic and christian relationship work? -family issues!!!

I'm asking this to get opinions from hopefully open-minded people.

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Talking to an ex

What do you think about talking to your ex? Do you cut all contact after a breakup? Can you ever be "just friends"?

 

What do you think about dating someone who still hangs out with their ex?

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Forgiveness

I was at a workshop last night for "Appreciative Inquiry".

 

 

It was pretty good, but as part of it the dialogue on forgiveness came up.

 

 

One statement was that forgiveness does not equal  reconciliation.

 

 

 

How do you define forgiveness?

 

 

If you forgive someone, is it necessary to let the person you forgive know, or is forgiveness something that is totally inward.

 

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Relationship and doctrine

Hi everyone!

I said I'm evangelical christian. It's truth. Also, for me relationship is more important than doctrines. It's why I came here because sometimes I found evangelical church to intolerant.

I thing everyone have the light of Christ within his life including people don't have my beleive. It's the reason why respect it's very important.

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