So,  just kind of a net poll.  Do you have any relationships from your past that accidently slipped away, and that in retrospect from your huge angle of knowlege of how  the world really work and who people really are, tells you you misjudged. 

You know you could have made a great life with that person.  Perhaps it is someone who was so far off your radar at the time, but that you now know that you were only decieved into believing he/she was out of your alignment, and that in fact you were moving along in parallel form?

I have been dating a guy for just over 9 months. Things were very serious when we first started dating. We both just knew we wanted to be together for a long time and we both discussed our intention for dating each other is marriage or to be life partners. We have similar goals and values.

No, there isn't really an app for that; there IS a solution however!

If you have any difficulties the survey with the link you have been sent, or having any technical problems with the survey that the United Church is currently conducting on "Leadership and Healthy Relastionships", please contact:

Nicholas Borodenko at Prairie Research Associates: borodenko@pra.ca  or, by phone at 204-987-2030.

Of all the couples I know, there is only one relationship that is healthy and going strong. Everyone, I mean every one, even those perfect couples you see here and there have huge skeletons in their closets. Divorce is not very common in my circle but most of these couples are so bitter/miserable/indiferent to each other that it seems like the only secret to a long term marriage is putting blinders on or lowering your expectations.

Is the happy 50-60 year old marriage just a myth?

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   Last night was a big disapointment. Its sad to see how easily my friends minds can get taken over by guys. For all my life i've had guys go in and out of my life very quickly. There was endless boy drama whether i liked it or not. After i ended things with a guy i told myself that I was done with them because with almost every guy there is always an identicle outcome. I talk to a guy for a couple days, weeks, or months and in the end its either one of us loses interest, or the guy becomes a complete jerk.

Blog deux!

I am a communicator...I always have been....pretty sure I always will be...I have a great communicative relationship with my mom...and with my children. I talk to my mom everyday...my kids who are in highschool still call me at work after school...I thought this was everyone's 'normal'.

In this blog entry, I introduce the notion that one's personal identity is inherent self-conflicted, with promises on how to resolve this self-confliction in a later post.

http://metrac.org/about/events.htm#upcoming

http://metrac.org/new/christian.launch.poster.pdf

For information, in a Christian context, on rights for women in relationships that are abusive (for women, and those in Christian leadership roles).