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The power of words

This week, in the online clergy discussions in which I participate, we have been going back and forth about the use of words in sermon illustrations. It began when one pastor noted he had used the word "nigger" when telling a story *about* someone who had said it. *He himself* was not using the word, but was illustrating how racism continues, and wanted his congregation to sit up and take note.

My husband is Japanese, so our children are bi-racial. When my youngest son was in public school, many years ago, a substitute teacher called him a "Jap". My son, angry and hurt, called the teacher (Trinidadian) a "dirty Paki". The teacher was upset, but didn't seem to be aware that he had also used a racist word. I told this story in a sermon about racism, and told it exactly the way it happened - because it was an illustration, and in my mind it *had* to be told the way it happened.

Well, the debate has been interesting, to say the least. There are those of us who believe that when we are illustrating a point, particularly in a sermon which is trying to educate people about racism, that the words have to be used. And we are arguing that it is not the same as making a joke or using such words in ordinary conversation.

On the other side of the debate are those who believe certain words should not be used at all, that they should be excised from all of our vocabulary all the time, because someone might be hurt by the word. Those people feel, for example, that even the word "Canuck" should not be used.

I am of the opinion that sometimes we need to shock our congregations a little into thinking more. But would I call someone a racist name, or make a racist joke about any particular ethnic group? Never.

To me these are two different things, and both arguments have validity. What do you think?

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Hi Fran:

 

I only make racist jokes about Germans, because they think they know everything. Who do they think they are, anyway? God?

 

But their foremost philosopher, Nietzsche, said, "God is dead!" Well, maybe they don't know everything.

 

Your Übermensch,

 

Arminius

 

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My father always called christmas oranges Jap oranges because they came from Japan - how could I not use this, to illustrate our unconscious racism, and how it comes out in words that we think mean nothing when they do. 

Such an illustration does cause people to reexamine the use of words and their power - in my sermon this past sunday ( below) I talked about how words do oppress and hurt - following Harold Pinter's insights.

 

We can be too political correct in the UCC and thus allow unconscious thinking to live.  So my answer there are times to be politically incorrect to get across a point.

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Haven't talked to YOU in a donkey's age! Fifteen years???? Thanks for the comments - I'd forgotten "Jap oranges"!! I am so used to calling them "mikan", which is the Japanese word.

I come firmly down on the side of *context* being really important - and not getting so caught up in pseudo political correctness.

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Hi Fran,

I'm with you on this one. I don't think there's anything offensive about using the actual words to illustrate racism, when the whole point is to educate AGAINST racism.

 I agree with ministers shocking their congregations into thinking more - there's nothing as long as a boring sermon! Although I guess it depends on how you shock them. I remember my Scottish Dad  telling me how as a small boy he was shocked out of his wits by the fire and brimstone Presbyterian minister in his highland village. He then had to hear the same sermon repeated later in the day - this time in Gaelic!!

Arminius, I know it's only January, but already you're leading in this year's most humorous comment. I laughed out loud about German rascist jokes and Nietzsche! Most of the time your head seems to be in the cosmos - sorry kosmos - so it was a treat to catch a glimpse of the individual!!!!

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I come from a Celt/Norge heritage and tell many jokes on that basis ... some quite ridiculous that can make others rage. If we could only look at ourselves as maybe creation meant to make the indeterminate God(s) laugh ... I truly wonder if that's not just what we are, a bit of a joke in the cosmos. With that sort of perspective one rather losses the schooled train of fear of death ... it's just too funny! You can lose your body ... emotions never go away ... and if you laugh hard enough can you lose your mind/soul/psyche complex? Perhaps that's the problem with God ... Hur'ims laughed thy'self right into senselessnes ... not a thought in that state of emotion! A break is needed for rest and catching the winds.

Now Newfoundlanders, that I used to do work for, would tell me endless newfy jokes and ask me "what is black and blue and floats in the bay b'y?" It seems it was a mainlander that told Newfy jokes without a proper initiation (it takes a lifetime) just like initiating a soul for the beyond!

Joseph Campbell defended myth as a power ... where an old definition of myth is "beyond". Now one has to wonder beyond what. Is it beyond "me" when we learn that saving the soul means stepping beyond th's elf ... like out of Pan Doers Box ... ain't that a devil of a metaphor in deep space of the mind ... convoluted!

They are just words ... a relational thing in a quantum universe. Perhap it is turned, convoluted on the other side? Sounds like vert-ego to me ... a winger at right angles!

Will we ever stand outside ourselves and look at the anima emptied, or is that naked from the other side of Eumerus? Do you know that funny philosopher on Gods?

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Using derogative words as shock is fine in my opinion although you always run the chance as being perceived as someone secretly wanting to say those words. The “N” word is the cause celebre of the day and although I would never use the word “Jap” I forget that it can be hurtful. I am also uncomfortable with “Jew”.....

I think if people were ‘loving wastefully’, they would avoid these epithets altogether.

(Arminius: Was Schopenhauer German. If so, perhaps he was Nietzsche’s philosopher equal?)

 

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Hi Fran keep up the good work