I find it really fascinating how many women out there want children. I find that great! However i'm really curious to know how many don't? I'm not saying that I dislike children in any way...i babysit, i tutor young kids and i also find them incredebly adorable...i'm just not interested in having any-in the present or in the futur.  I find it really irritating when people say "oh but you'll want them later"....probably not though, i know what i want and i know what i don't want....I'm very career orientated, i love traveling, i like spoiling myself and i like focusing on my relationships and friendships.