But sooner or later we discover that, to a large extent, these vicissitudes...these ups and downs... are woven into the very fabric of our existence. Sure, we can create a story, as Hollywood so often does, where life has only peaks and no valleys. “And the sky was not cloudy all day.” But real life is more frustrating than that, because it always involves these unplanned fluctuations... at least in my experience. For example, you settle down for a nice nap on the couch, and just as you drift off into dreamland, a fire engine races by beneath your window, sirens blaring. Just one of life's little vicissitudes. Or, that person who somehow, unwittingly, is able to push every one of your buttons.... shows up at your door for an unexpected visit... and it's too late to pretend you're not home.... they heard you vacuuming or something, so they know you're there. And these are just the easy ones. We can't forget that ultimate vicissitude of life over which we have no control.... like when someone you love receives a terminal diagnosis, or has a fatal accident... and there we are... and there's just no way to either “rewind”or “fast forward.” And then, of course, there's our own impending death. But whether the vicissitudes are tiny or massive, at these moments, not even Hollywood can persuade us that life is really all under our control, if we just do the right thing, or have the right attitude, or buy the right product or service or experience.
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