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Did Serena Elope?

i was following the second date thread and then Serena disappeared. Do you think she eloped?

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Yes.  Yes I think she did.

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I hope that Serena is happy wherever she is.  Perhaps she is just busy with her new friend.  

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Well, she didn't elope with me, and I feel left out.

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 People who are tortured as very young children often take on different identities. I suspect that  Serena personnality has been over powered by her other sock puppets.

 

What other sock puppets have been seeking attention and causing trouble?  

 

Is Serena inside Joejack2/sylviac/retiredrev/southpaw?

 

Do we enable them to continue  the abuse of this former torture victim who`s personality has been distroyed, by paying attention to them?

 

Do they provoke us on purpose so that the abuse continues?

 

Do we become her/his abuser?

 

Can you imagine what unspeakable torture she3he suffered as a two year old, three year old?

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Alex wrote:

 Is Serena inside Joejack2/sylviac/retiredrev/southpaw?

You should've been a stand up comic.  Writing silly, insecure, irresponsible, puerile accusations on WC sure hasn't done it for you.  Nobody's responsible for your paranoia but you. Alex.  What's inside Alex besides a bunch of wimping and whining, false accusation and innuendos?  Not much, I guess.  Oh, dear, I hope I wasn't homophobic, claustrophobic, stereophonic, or whatever other BS term you wish to fling.  Have a nice life.

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No, I did not elope.  I have lost count of the number of dates we have been on.

 

I wrote this song for my sweetheart:

 

Well He looked in the sky and wished upon his favourite star   (He calls me the star)

He looked so charming even though he was covered in tar

I didn't know what to do, cuz even a star gets lonely too

Then all the stars in heaven shined bright and then he chased me

 

Well he clicked on my profile and asked me if I wanted to chat     (we met online)

He looked kind of nice but then I found out he was a brat 

At the movie he held my hand tight and then he drove me home that night

And all the stars in Heaven shined bright and then he kissed me

 

Well each time I saw him I couldn't wait to see him again

I wanted to let him know that I was more than a friend

I didn't know just what to do  So I wrote this song for you

Then all the stars in Heaven shined bright and then you kissed me

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We go out a lot (like sometimes 7 nights a week and the dates start at 4:00 PM as soon as I am home from work)   and I find when he is not here I am beind with everything so sorry I did not mean to ignore you guys but having a boyfriend is time consuming.  When he is not here I also sing a lot and dream about him.   I think I might have been caught by cupid's arrow.   Where is Witch?  I need an anti love potion.  No maybe not....this is better than being drunk.

 

 

I also finished my Anatomy and Physiology and got a B on the course.

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So Crazyheart to answer your question.  Did Serena elope?

 

 

No.  At least not yet.       But he is giving longterm hints....

 

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Alex;

 

I was not abused as a child and I have no sockpuppets at this present time.   Not having sockpuppets was a condition of my reinstatement to wondercafe after my banning.   So that you can still click on my profile should show that I am just absent not banned.

 

Admittedly, I have been AWOL from a lot of things lately.  People are wondering where I have been online and in real life.  

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Well, I for one am glad that you're happy and that things are going well for you Serena. I hope that continues.

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 Jon, I second that. Best Wishes Serena.

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Alex wrote:

 People who are tortured as very young children often take on different identities. I suspect that  Serena personnality has been over powered by her other sock puppets.

 

What other sock puppets have been seeking attention and causing trouble?  

 

Is Serena inside Joejack2/sylviac/retiredrev/southpaw?

 

Do we enable them to continue  the abuse of this former torture victim who`s personality has been distroyed, by paying attention to them?

 

Do they provoke us on purpose so that the abuse continues?

 

Do we become her/his abuser?

 

Can you imagine what unspeakable torture she3he suffered as a two year old, three year old?

 

I hope I'm not the only one who finds this post entirely inappropriate, as it constitutes complete speculation on personal matters that the author has absolutely no way of knowing anything about. Not to mention that I'm getting tired of the sockpuppet accusations. It seems that anyone who defends someone who is a bit controversial automatically gets accused by some of being a sockpuppet. That whole issue is dissolving into childishness.

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Rev. Steven Davis wrote:

 

I hope I'm not the only one who finds this post entirely inappropriate, as it constitutes complete speculation on personal matters that the author has absolutely no way of knowing anything about. Not to mention that I'm getting tired of the sockpuppet accusations. It seems that anyone who defends someone who is a bit controversial automatically gets accused by some of being a sockpuppet. That whole issue is dissolving into childishness.

Maybe Alex and Serena are the same person 

 

Serena, I'm glad you're having a good time!

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Best wishes Serena ... you sound very happy!

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How exciting, Serena! I'm happy for you...

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pommum wrote:

Best wishes Serena ... you sound very happy!

 

I am.  I am afraid that Cupid's arrow has finally caught up to me.  I can think of nothing else.

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Enjoy.

 

As-salaamu alaikum

-Omni

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Adding my smiles & 2 thumbs up to Serena's new distraction!  Keep us in the loop if you think of us - this sounds wonderful, like a gift you've needed for awhile. 

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Actually, being lovesick is ACTUALLY like being sick.   I think of him all the time when he is away and I make decisions that benefit him rather than me.  Like I choose movies that I know  he would like and pizzas that I know he would like.

 

Actually, I am not liking this too much sometimes.

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You'll get over that when you realize there are important things to get done in life

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Like getting married and having babies.

Nothing is more important than falling in love.

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 Putting the other first is an important part of a committed relationship.  When both parties think of the others happiness before their own each is being generous with their love.

 

That is a totally different thing than you caving into his wants if you dont' wish to.

 

enjoy your new love.  I hope you have a happy summer in love.

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I don't cave.  He does not ask me to to do anything for him.  He is always looking out for my interest.

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 And that is what makes a lovely relationship.  Two people who want to do what is best for the other.

 

It is wonderful and with a great friendship and a commitment to the well being of the other you can have a real long term relationship

 

Enjoy

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Serena wrote:

Actually, being lovesick is ACTUALLY like being sick.  

 

I remember those days. Twasn't easy, either. We were students in the same faculty at UWO (Library and Information Science) and she didn't want the relationship to be "public" until she was sure it would last. I, on the other hand, had a serious case of being giddy and in love and wanting the world to hear about it.

 

Good luck, Serena. It sounds like this is going well for you.

 

Mendalla

 

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