gratefulone
He said "No" and I still love him
Posted on: 04/05/2011 18:07
I just realized that the man who said No to me when I asked if he wanted a hug.. may have been a boundary issue. I fet very rejected but I realize that it was at his place of work. At least I hope that is why he said no.If not I will move on and stop keep asking if I can hug those wodnerfully available men.
Joy is very hard to contain. It is wodnerful btu also a burden when men open up to me. I am not sure what to say. Especially whan they are not open up to their partners or friends. I really need to have a response for this. Or most of all refer them to someone of their gender.
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cjms
Posted on: 04/12/2011 15:35
Is this the minister to whom you are attracted? Is he single? Is he trying to say that he is not interested in starting a relationship?...cms
SG
Posted on: 04/12/2011 16:26
I wondered the same thing, cjms.
"Loving" someone you have not even hugged made me think you were young, gratefulone. A check of our profile says you are not.
Opening up to some people comes easy, that does not mean you have those kinds of feelings for them. Some people find talking to friends is easier than their partner, depending on the topic. That does not mean they always have those kinds of feelings for them, either.
Boundaries are not always about work.