Matthew Vines ---ho is he -----http://www.matthewvines.com/
It is long but worth listening to -----The Gay Debate: The Bible and Homosexuality
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airclean33
Posted on: 03/19/2014 20:28
Hi Unsafe-- very interesting vid. One of the best speakers I have heard on the gay side. I can never really understand why they need me, to accept what they believe . God judges all things. You me and Gays.Matthew Vines was right as far as God putting anything in His word that being Gay and acting on it was all right. God Bless--airclean33
RitaTG
Posted on: 03/19/2014 21:13
unsafe ...... I am genuinely surprised in a very good way!
BRAVO!!!!! ...... wonderful!
unsafe ...... does this video express your beliefs regarding this topic?
Sincerely .... I would very much like to know.... (hoping here....)
I recommend the last 8 minutes for those that don't have time to listen to the whole thing.
airclean ..... you obviously didn't listen carefully ..... I suggest that you review the last 8 minutes again....
Actually relisten to the whole thing...... carefully.....
"They" ...... "they" ..... that takes away the identity and the life of the individual....
Make a person into a faceless "they" and you can say and do what you want with "them".
airclean .... do "we" need you to accept "us"? ...... no .....
Should you? ...... seems this video addresses that in detail.
It is persons with viewpoint like yours that HURT vulnerable persons like "us" and for no good reason. There are persons .... young persons like "us" that have to sit in your churches ..... sit at your dinner tables .... relatives, friends, coworkers .... that you wound and punish by your attitudes.
Go ahead airclean ... determine what is right for you to do ..... I would suggest being careful to use just weights and the right weights....
Sincerely
Rita
InannaWhimsey
Posted on: 03/19/2014 22:23
unsafe,
what a well spoken young man. ty for pointing this out
thus the importance of laws, like in the USA & Canada, that protect their citizens from each other, so that no one can do violence against another or create a law that violates our soverign rights to live the life we each find ourselves living. we can believe whatever crazy ideas we want to. even pray to some mushrooms.
seeler
Posted on: 03/20/2014 09:19
I just took over an hour to listen to this young man - excellent. Time well spent.
airclean33
Posted on: 03/20/2014 11:52
I recommend the last 8 minutes for those that don't have time to listen to the whole thing.
airclean ..... you obviously didn't listen carefully ..... I suggest that you review the last 8 minutes again....
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Hi RitaTG--What you believe or for that matter this young man in GODS word . Is your belief .I have been in and around this world for a wile and have even had those believed being a Gay person and living in my own family an believing it was ok. He understood how I seen it as a Christain. I tryed very hard not to judge him . As I try not to judge those who walk in that way here or any sin. It seems you didn't read my post very well RitaTG. I have as a born again Christain evey right to question and judge those who are breaking GODS word. I will try not to though as I understand GOD is JUDGE of all . What GOD has said , He has said.I said HE GOD has never said it was ok for you , or any to be as you are. If you want to show me different? Please do so from GODS Word. Perhaps you should lison to this find talking young man again.
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Actually relisten to the whole thing...... carefully.....
"They" ...... "they" ..... that takes away the identity and the life of the individual....
Make a person into a faceless "they" and you can say and do what you want with "them".
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Airclean--Faceless?There are those here I understand are part of the Gay movement. . You are not Faceless to me RitaTG. Nor are others I have posted to here . I have said it here befor . But will say it again . What you do in life is between you and GOD". I will judge only by what I see GOD say. There our things I did befor Christ put his arms around me. I would never allow myself to do now.
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airclean .... do "we" need you to accept "us"? ...... no .....
Should you? ...... seems this video addresses that in detail.
It is persons with viewpoint like yours that HURT vulnerable persons like "us" and for no good reason. There are persons .... young persons like "us" that have to sit in your churches ..... sit at your dinner tables .... relatives, friends, coworkers .... that you wound and punish by your attitudes.
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Airclean--RitaTG--I will apologize to you and other Gays I am sure can be hurt by what I post. But I will not choise, a lie over GODS Truth". It is wrong to steal? It is a sin by the word of GOD. If I hunger dose it then make GODS word" void? If I seal because my family hungers Dose that make GODS word" void?
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Go ahead airclean ... determine what is right for you to do ..... I would suggest being careful to use just weights and the right weights....
Sincerely
Rita
RitaTG
Posted on: 03/20/2014 10:28
Lets try and be clear and open airclean .... please.... 2 questions
Do you consider that being and living as a transgender person is a sin?
Do you consider that being and living as a gay person is a sin?
Please don't split hairs ..... I am sure you know the intent of the questions...
The tone of your last post seems to imply that being who I am and living it out as I do is sin.
An honest answer would be appreciated for clarity....
Regards
Rita
airclean33
Posted on: 03/20/2014 18:04
Hi RitataTG-- You would have that I Judge you? I read as I understand from the word of GOD His Bible and as The Holy Spirit teaches me. In the book of Deuteronomy 22: 5 can you explain to me the meaning? Can you explain 1-Cor--11: 14. That I may also understand? Did you not read my posts were I said I don't want to make judgments? Whatever the meaning I see should not bother you. For I am not your Judge. There is another who had these things put in His book many years ago. That you feel your ok with Him, should be your only worry. Because He is your Judge. --airclean33
unsafe
Posted on: 03/20/2014 19:22
This video was brought to my attention by a friend of mine who is a Born Again Christian who is gay ----He wanted to know what I thought -------I was so impressed by the young man's ability to articulate so well what he was trying to get across and his belief in his message was with a heart felt conviction that I decided to post it here on the cafe ----
It is not for me to judge anyone who pursues a lifestyle that they themselves believe in ---God will be the judge when we die ---we humans can tell ourselves that this is right ---and this is wrong but what does God say -----Incest is wrong in our culture --yet incest happened in the beginning as the only 2 people alive were Adam and Eve -----their offspring had to intermingle to reproduce -----
Anyone who accepts Christ as their Lord and Savior has the Holy Spirit indwelling in them and are under Grace -----and under Grace whether we like it or not is not a sinner in God's sight ---Past Present and Future sins are erased -------it doesn't matter if you're the worst mass murderer in the world or you love someone of the same sex ----God's Grace is in place-- Period -----
The Old Testament was all ment for the Jews --so if your a Jew by birth then the 613 laws applied to you --Gentiles were never included in the Laws --the Gentiles were a lost race forever ---hell bound ----until Jesus came and payed the price for all man kind to be included in Salvation -----God included the Gentiles in His Grace to make the Jews Jealous so they would give up the laws that they couldn't keep ------they had to realize they needed a Savior -----
Romans 11:11
GOD’S WORD Translation (GW)
11 So I ask, “Has Israel stumbled so badly that it can’t get up again?” That’s unthinkable! By Israel’s failure, salvation has come to people who are not Jewish to make the Jewish people jealous.
If you do not accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior it matters not what you do in this world ---you can have 100 wives ---be in love with who you want to ---etc --etc ---because now you go to hell for rejecting Jesus ----who can give you a clean slate and a second chance to be free from sin and death.
All Sin has consequenses that affect our lives -----Grace gives us the ability to resist sin and our Love for God gives us the want to please Him --which is to do what He wants us to do not what we want to do ourselves ------ God loves all His Human Creation it is us who have turned our Love Away from God .----
These are my thoughts on this --Peace
dreamerman
Posted on: 03/20/2014 19:46
Wow isn't that PRECIOUS. You can be a mass murderer and all you have to do is accept jesus as you lord and saviour and all is forgiven but wait there is more you can keep sinning and you are still saved because Jesus gave you a get out of jail free card. Is that about the gist of it unsafe? Here is the best part that I find just priceless, you can be one of the most kind, considerate and generous person around but if you didn't accept Jesus well then you just purchased a one way ticket to hell.Okay unsafe you have me sold on this idea where do I sign up?
unsafe
Posted on: 03/20/2014 19:59
Hi dreamerman
If you have a problem with how God set Up His System ---then you will have to talk to God about it dreamerman ---I can't help you -----Period ---
Peace
GeoFee
Posted on: 03/20/2014 20:08
I found and appreciated this, from a band called "Over The Rhine":
I have seen the slow corruption
Of the best ideas of Christ
In the pulpits of our nation
Gospel turned into white lies
If you preach a subtle hatred -
The bible as your alibi
Goddam you right here in Ohio
The song is called "All Over Ohio"
George
Dcn. Jae
Posted on: 03/20/2014 21:30
When I saw this video on Facebook, I thought of this thread.
InannaWhimsey
Posted on: 03/20/2014 22:13
very romantic moments
very cute reactions
children are our future
dreamerman
Posted on: 03/20/2014 22:42
Hi dreamerman
If you have a problem with how God set Up His System ---then you will have to talk to God about it dreamerman ---I can't help you -----Period ---
Peace
RitaTG
Posted on: 03/21/2014 09:47
Hi RitataTG-- You would have that I Judge you? I read as I understand from the word of GOD His Bible and as The Holy Spirit teaches me. In the book of Deuteronomy 22: 5 can you explain to me the meaning? Can you explain 1-Cor--11: 14. That I may also understand? Did you not read my posts were I said I don't want to make judgments? Whatever the meaning I see should not bother you. For I am not your Judge. There is another who had these things put in His book many years ago. That you feel your ok with Him, should be your only worry. Because He is your Judge. --airclean33
Nice veiled judgement and put off airclean ..... well done indeed.....
Thankfully Christians are moving away from your milk bottle theology and enjoying some meat. Times are changing and christianity is starting to grow up here and there...
Regards
Rita
chansen
Posted on: 03/21/2014 09:56
10 posts.
I was wondering how long it would take unsafe, with airclean's help, to mess up the goodwill stemming from the seemingly positive message in the video in the opening post.
It only took 10 posts. Well done.
RitaTG
Posted on: 03/21/2014 09:57
thank you for a reply unsafe....
Again ... like airclean ... you dodge the question....
I would like to make this point.....
.......
What we are (LGBT) is not our lifestyle. It is who we are in our core being. It is how we were created.
How I choose to live out that truth in me is my lifestyle. I can choose to live out that truth in good ways or in bad ways. That is my lifestyle ..... how I live it out.
To deny and hide the truth about how God made me is to be ashamed of what God has created. I choose to live openly and with dignity......
........
I do hope this helps you understand the difference.......
Denigrating who I am inside by passing it off as just a lifestyle is incredibly hurtful.
It is my sincere hope that persons such as you would find the courage to explore and test what I am telling you and learn the truth for yourselves. You would then regard us much differently and acknowledge us for who we really are.
Regards
Rita
RitaTG
Posted on: 03/21/2014 10:01
10 posts.
I was wondering how long it would take unsafe, with airclean's help, to mess up the goodwill stemming from the seemingly positive message in the video in the opening post.
It only took 10 posts. Well done.
hello chansen ....... perhaps ...... but now we have another opportunity to discuss the "issue" with unsafe and airclean. It was unsafe that brought it up so therefore there is interest and unsafe did point out how she was impressed by her friend and this video.
A starting point ....... always worth trying ...... just maybe there will be a little change.
I will focus on being positive and address the comments as directly and respectfully as I can.
Regards
Rita
RitaTG
Posted on: 03/21/2014 10:31
RE: Gay Hug Video
When I saw this video on Facebook, I thought of this thread.
Thank you Jae ....... very heartfelt..... and I appreciate it....
Would Jesus hug me??? I had that question....
Would he hug the "Rita" me??????
That is the sort of question we face.....
I know so many others that don't feel they belong ...... just like that one girl blessed herself before working up the courage to go beyond her revulsion and simply hug.
Blessed herself ....... as if the other person was too unclean to hug........
Judged ........ judged ..... unclean ...... ewwww .... don't want to hug.....
Now .... if christians as supposed to be "christ like" ...... and as I heard in church so many times ..... "to be his hands extended" ..... why is is so hard to simply give me a heartfelt hug?
Jae ...... I sense you would hug me ..... thanks.....
Regards
Inukshuk
Posted on: 03/21/2014 10:39
unsafe wrote "God included the Gentiles in his grace to make the Jews jealous" hahaha - thanks for my morning chuckle!
airclean33
Posted on: 03/21/2014 11:29
Hi RitataTG-- You would have that I Judge you? I read as I understand from the word of GOD His Bible and as The Holy Spirit teaches me. In the book of Deuteronomy 22: 5 can you explain to me the meaning? Can you explain 1-Cor--11: 14. That I may also understand? Did you not read my posts were I said I don't want to make judgments? Whatever the meaning I see should not bother you. For I am not your Judge. There is another who had these things put in His book many years ago. That you feel your ok with Him, should be your only worry. Because He is your Judge. --airclean33
Nice veiled judgement and put off airclean ..... well done indeed.....
Thankfully Christians are moving away from your milk bottle theology and enjoying some meat. Times are changing and christianity is starting to grow up here and there...
Regards
Rita--
waterfall
Posted on: 03/21/2014 11:41
Oh Rita, hugs hugs and more hugs!
I thought of this song, I only wish it said sister, brother, mother, father, everyone within the world!
airclean33
Posted on: 03/21/2014 12:30
thank you for a reply unsafe....
Again ... like airclean ... you dodge the question....
I would like to make this point.....
.......
What we are (LGBT) is not our lifestyle. It is who we are in our core being. It is how we were created.
How I choose to live out that truth in me is my lifestyle. I can choose to live out that truth in good ways or in bad ways. That is my lifestyle ..... how I live it out.
To deny and hide the truth about how God made me is to be ashamed of what God has created. I choose to live openly and with dignity......
........
I do hope this helps you understand the difference.......
Denigrating who I am inside by passing it off as just a lifestyle is incredibly hurtful.
It is my sincere hope that persons such as you would find the courage to explore and test what I am telling you and learn the truth for yourselves. You would then regard us much differently and acknowledge us for who we really are.
Regards
Rita
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RitaTG-- Your last line.------ You would then regard us much differently and acknowledge us for who we really are.
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Airclean--I am also in the flesh RitaTG. There are things I must control. Some of which are hard. GOD is helping me an others to keep those controls on. We are not perfect, far from it. But really Jesus The Christ is , His arm is strong . It can hold me back from following my wants, and help us to lison to what His father tells us, what really is are needs and what is ok.I say this RitaTG only so it won't be wasted on those who cannot recive. GOD BLESS, I Pray GOD helps you to understand us. Airclean33 Gord.
Saul_now_Paul
Posted on: 03/21/2014 12:51
I found and appreciated this, from a band called "Over The Rhine":
I have seen the slow corruption
Of the best ideas of Christ
In the pulpits of our nation
Gospel turned into white lies
If you preach a subtle hatred -
The bible as your alibi
Goddam you right here in Ohio
The song is called "All Over Ohio"
George
Hi George,
Thanks for the gift! Even though it was delivered as a cheap shot. Immediately like the music.
Kimmio
Posted on: 03/21/2014 12:58
They're a great band.
Dcn. Jae
Posted on: 03/21/2014 16:25
Regards
Thank you for saying that, RitaTG, but I doubt it. I'm not a huggy kind of guy.
chansen
Posted on: 03/21/2014 16:31
Side hug?
Dcn. Jae
Posted on: 03/21/2014 16:33
Side hug?
What is that? That is a new term to me.
unsafe
Posted on: 03/21/2014 17:26
Hi Inukshuk ---your quote
unsafe wrote "God included the Gentiles in his grace to make the Jews jealous" hahaha - thanks for my morning chuckle!
Actually God says this not me ---I just quoted what God says in His word ---if you have a problem with God's word you will have to take it up with God not me -----you of course don't have to believe God's word but it won't change what it says ---Period
Again ----
Romans 11:11
GOD’S WORD Translation (GW)
11 So I ask, “Has Israel stumbled so badly that it can’t get up again?” That’s unthinkable! By Israel’s failure, salvation has come to people who are not Jewish to make the Jewish people jealous.
Peace to you Inukshuk
Inukshuk
Posted on: 03/21/2014 17:38
unsafe - have you ever actually studied the bible? taken your translations back to the Hebrew roots and studied them in the context they were written?
unsafe
Posted on: 03/21/2014 18:49
Hi Inukshuk
Maybe you need to check where you are ---I quoted Romans --the New Testament ---it is Greek not Hebrew ---the New Testament was Written in Greek ---this is the translation in Greek --the language of the New Testament -----Hebrew is the language of the Old Testament ----
You can view the Greek Translation here ----
http://biblehub.com/lexicon/romans/11-11.htm
Peace to you inukshuk
Inukshuk
Posted on: 03/21/2014 20:16
oops - I posted too quickly and stand corrected re your quote from Romans.
You seem to throw out snippets from the bible - do you understand the context in which they were written?
dreamerman
Posted on: 03/21/2014 20:27
Hi Inukshuk ---your quote
unsafe wrote "God included the Gentiles in his grace to make the Jews jealous" hahaha - thanks for my morning chuckle!
Actually God says this not me ---I just quoted what God says in His word ---if you have a problem with God's word you will have to take it up with God not me -----you of course don't have to believe God's word but it won't change what it says ---Period
Again ----
Romans 11:11
GOD’S WORD Translation (GW)
11 So I ask, “Has Israel stumbled so badly that it can’t get up again?” That’s unthinkable! By Israel’s failure, salvation has come to people who are not Jewish to make the Jewish people jealous.
Peace to you Inukshuk
unsafe
Posted on: 03/22/2014 06:20
IHi Inukshuk your quote You seem to throw out snippets from the bible - do you understand the context in which they were written?
My answer to your Question is yes ---
Romans 11
GOD’S WORD Translation (GW)
God’s Continuing Love for Jewish People
My question to you is ---Do You ?
Peace to you Inukshuk
jon71
Posted on: 03/22/2014 10:24
I had seen that before and loved it. It nicely exposes the lie that homosexuality is a sin. People are gay because that is the will of our innerant God. Likewise God gave some people the journey of being transgendered. We need to love and accept our L.G.B.T.Q. brothers and sisters as Christ does.
RitaTG
Posted on: 03/24/2014 11:59
ok ... a recap airclean...
You have lumped being what I am and being gay as being the same as .....
- a murderer,
- a thief,
- and an adulterer.
Then you go on about controlling oneself....
So .... being what I am ... a woman .... a transgender woman....
What is it that I need to control? .... and that as a transgender woman please...
Is it how I dress? .... if so please tell me the criteria...
Is it how I behave? .... if so tell me how I should behave....
Or is it simply that I have acted on the truth of being a transgender woman and have chosen to live out that truth openly and honestly by how I dress and how I behave?
Would you please be very specific about the sin you are alluding to....
Please spell it out for me....
Sincerely
Rita
airclean33
Posted on: 03/24/2014 13:31
Hi RitaTG--Here is a question I ask befor. If you can answer it . Perhaps we can talk.
What GOD has said , He has said.I said HE GOD has never said it was ok for you , or any to be as you are. If you want to show me different? Please do so from GODS Word. Perhaps you should lison to this find talking young man again.
The young man Mattew Vines, in the vid spoke on this very thing RitaTG. Perhaps it was you that were not listing?
Dcn. Jae
Posted on: 03/24/2014 13:30
ok ... a recap airclean...
You have lumped being what I am and being gay as being the same as .....
- a murderer,
- a thief,
- and an adulterer.
Then you go on about controlling oneself....
So .... being what I am ... a woman .... a transgender woman....
What is it that I need to control? .... and that as a transgender woman please...
Is it how I dress? .... if so please tell me the criteria...
Is it how I behave? .... if so tell me how I should behave....
Or is it simply that I have acted on the truth of being a transgender woman and have chosen to live out that truth openly and honestly by how I dress and how I behave?
Would you please be very specific about the sin you are alluding to....
Please spell it out for me....
Sincerely
Rita
RitaTG,
I am seeking to understand.
I am not trying to offend.
My question is this, how do you know that your being a transgendered woman is the truth?
Rich blessings.
RitaTG
Posted on: 03/24/2014 13:36
go ahead and cite the verses that you are referring to airclean...
Show me specifically where you allege that scripture says I cannot dress according to my heart. Book, chapter, and verses please.....
I will be more than happy to address them fully....
Regards
Rita
Dcn. Jae
Posted on: 03/24/2014 16:06
go ahead and cite the verses that you are referring to airclean...
Show me specifically where you allege that scripture says I cannot dress according to my heart. Book, chapter, and verses please.....
I will be more than happy to address them fully....
Regards
Rita
What are your thoughts on Deuteronomy 22:5?
revjohn
Posted on: 03/24/2014 16:16
Hi Dcn. Jae,
What are your thoughts on Deuteronomy 22:5?
Try addressing that to a Scot.
Grace and peace to you.
John
chansen
Posted on: 03/24/2014 16:17
What are your thoughts on Deuteronomy 22:5?
5 A woman must not wear men’s clothing, nor a man wear women’s clothing, for the Lord your God detests anyone who does this.
I don't know. Let's ask this guy in the skirt:
RitaTG
Posted on: 03/24/2014 16:21
Dcn Jae ... when read in context it is listed along with other admonishments regarding abuse.....
My question is this .... since we are not to just pull something out but rather take it in context ,... what is before and what comes after......
What do you make of the rest of the chapter? Are those applicable just as they are or not? If the rest is not ..... then why not? ...... and where is the scriptural justification of pulling this one out and ignoring the rest?
I would be interested in the viewpoint of a biblical studies student such as yourself...
Sincerely
Rita
chansen
Posted on: 03/24/2014 16:27
Hi Dcn. Jae,
What are your thoughts on Deuteronomy 22:5?
Try addressing that to a Scot.
Grace and peace to you.
John
What an excellent mental image. You win this round.
airclean33
Posted on: 03/24/2014 16:36
Hi Rev John --Would you like to try and tell at scot that what He's wearing is a dress?
airclean33
Posted on: 03/24/2014 16:37
Hi Rita I'm still waiting for you to show me .
Dcn. Jae
Posted on: 03/24/2014 16:42
Hi Dcn. Jae,
What are your thoughts on Deuteronomy 22:5?
Try addressing that to a Scot.
Grace and peace to you.
John
Clever, but a kilt is mens' clothing.
Dcn. Jae
Posted on: 03/24/2014 16:44
Dcn Jae ... when read in context it is listed along with other admonishments regarding abuse.....
My question is this .... since we are not to just pull something out but rather take it in context ,... what is before and what comes after......
What do you make of the rest of the chapter? Are those applicable just as they are or not? If the rest is not ..... then why not? ...... and where is the scriptural justification of pulling this one out and ignoring the rest?
I would be interested in the viewpoint of a biblical studies student such as yourself...
Sincerely
Rita
Excellent questions RitaTG. I shall attempt to answer them should you elect to first answer the question I posed of you.
RitaTG
Posted on: 03/24/2014 16:44
airclean .... how about Romans 14???
Lets start there....
Rita
RitaTG
Posted on: 03/24/2014 16:53
Dcn Jae ...... I thought I had answered your question....
What is not clear in my answer?
Regards
Rita