Will Braun
It is tempting these days to say, as many others are saying, “I am spiritual but not religious.” To join this increasingly fashionable group is to be open to spirituality in a broad sense, but to spurn “organized religion” and “the institutional church.”
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Motheroffive
Posted on: 03/11/2010 01:19
As someone who's attendance at church over the last few years has been sporadic at best, I must say I am in complete agreement with you, Will. The vision of community and its effect on us, whether in our spiritual journey, or other endeavours, is one that reasonates with me. It moves away from the individualistic view of the world into one that is more difficult and more complex. Yet, that is how we develop and grow and how we reflect the Creator (or love) to each other.
The idea that one must find oneself before engaging in relationship, whether partnered/spousal or in other forms of community is a trap, in my opinion. Yes, it is important to have a balance (over time) in our lives of time for self (contemplation, exercise, meaningful work, etc) versus time with others (partners, children, other family members, friends, etc) however, often our relationships are where we find love and where we can work through who we are. I doubt this explanation is clear but hope that the general gist is understood.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and your article.
alicef
Posted on: 03/25/2010 22:30
These days I thoroughly enjoy going to church, and miss it when I'm not there. My congregation feels like family. I love the people around me, old and young, and when someone is away, their absense is palpable. I am so happy to have found my church home.
lostlamb
Posted on: 04/20/2010 12:21
Interesting thoughts. Thank you to all. Im feeling lost and dont know why because I have a great life (family, work life, supports, etc.) but I do believe that its God that is missing from my life. Im searching for meaning and am overwhelmed at times.......:(
kaja
Posted on: 05/26/2010 18:59
Wonderful piece Will. You've spoken words from my own heart; and done it better than I might have. It is indeed fashionable to claim "spirituality" and disclaim "religion". This viewpoint saddens me: it seems to lead to a dead end. But it also excites me. It signals to me that individuals are thinking about God, faith and church.
Reading you're thoughtful words, I'm emboldened in my commitment to faith and church. I do not seek to convert the anti-religious; I simply want to undertand the viewpoint, and to be there for them, one by one, in their quest for meaning, for individuality and for community.
Many thanks,
KaJa, also from Winnipeg
Melchizedek
Posted on: 06/22/2010 22:53
Shows how little you know, or how lazy you are in your research, when you under-define 'religion' and are very selective about 'spiritiuality.' I guess it helps you to feel superior to those who actually understand the fullest meaning of both words.
SRM
Posted on: 06/28/2010 21:15
This was a good point and stuck out to me right away since I consider myself spiritual and not religious. It's so eye opening to think that just the time dedicating to church every sunday (whether or not you enjoy it) is a work of worship and leads to strengthening our obedience to God. Thank you for this, it really reminds me how important dedication to church is. It's scary how this "spiritual" not "religious" outlook on God and the church pulls people away from what really matters- serving others and relationship, and then gravitates themselves to focus on themselves. It makes people become more self involved, leading them to selfishness. The devil is at work in this individuality from the church, thanks again for reminding me! ( i just realized a lot )
Bernie
Posted on: 09/03/2010 01:32
The sense of belonging and community is the thing I miss most. But some of the beliefs get to me, I just don't buy it, specifically the catholic church. I guess I'd feel like a hypocrite going to church, but not believing what we're supposed to according to the doctrine of the church. I recognize the good the church is in today's society, how it provides a structure for families...all good, but I can't bring myself to believe some of what they teach. Like the holy trinity and all that...although facets of a single god are a theme common to a few religions (hindu & buddhism off the top). I don't know.
jamessull
Posted on: 09/23/2010 12:19
Bernie is sincere. He would like the community dimension that churchgoing affords, yet he is not sure about entering into that dimension because he is not sure he "believes" what the community professes. I doubt I could convert him to a profession of the Church's faith in 5 sentences in this blog, and so I will leave him with 2 thoughts.
1) In the earliest days of the Church - while baptizing new converts - the Church Fathers drew up what they called the "syndoche" or creed, an attempt to condense the major truths of the Christian faith. "I believe in God, the Father Almighty, creator of heaven and earth, and in Jesus Christ, His only son, who was conceived of the Holy Spirit and born of the Virgin Mary... ...etc." Now this creed is from the very beginning ...it links us with the primitive Church. Belief in the trinity, the resurrection, the forgiveness of sins are realities that are Stone Age Christianity, not add-ons or departures from the oldtime Gospel. Have confidence in the trinity therefore, it is as old as the Gospels themselves.
2) Keep wanting to develop your faith, know it more deeply. Remember that where you are right now is very possibly an ongoing work. You will change, develop, and grow.