I don't want to flog this to death and I hope we can have respectful conversation around it.

The Canadian Government recognizes Same-sex marriage.

The United Church of Canada recognizes Same-sex marriage.

Why then are church boards, church councils and ministers able to say "no" to doing the service.? In my personal experience, some of these churches have never had open conversation with the congregation or their boards and committees about Same-sex marriage. It is a topic that hasn't been addressed since the 80's.