ok, folks, I am making an appeal here...which may be off-line, and considered spam..but bear with me....

For years, folks who were gay were excluded from marraige.

For years, proms were a no-no

For years, the company Christmas party was a miss

and, yes, for years, competitions about my wonderful love, or our marriage, or our family, were only for a select group -- those of us who are married to those of the opposite sex.