in the thread posted by dionamanda, numerous people have suggested that men going to strip clubs is okay, and that if his partner has a problem with it, they need to just get over it and quit trying to ruin his fun. 

for me, if a man in a committed relationship knows that going to a strip club is something that will upset his partner, then he shouldn't be going in there.  period.   there really is no reason that i can see why it is imperative that a man go to a strip club at all.

what am i missing here??