Where to begin?  This might be a bit of a ramble, so bear with me. :) I will try to be succinct. I am in an extremely unhappy place in my life. Let me see. It all started about 7 1/2 years ago - around the time when my first son was born, just after I was married. My husband started a job that he initally LOVED but quickly grew to hate it. I mean, ABHORE it. He was never a happy-go-lucky kind of person, but during his 5 years at this position, he turned into a person that I didn't marry. He was someone else.

Ok, so...it's been a year since my husband left...I have been on several dates and have met many gentleman...and some creeps...

It really bugs me when someone asks me, or takes it upon themselves to think, that I'm not ready to move on...so I ask you all, is there a 'normal' time frame that passes before a new relationship can begin? I have realized, I am relational...I am not interested in 'dating' a bunch of guys and I can tell very quickly if there is an attraction...

It just sort of drags you along whether you like it or not ... isolated persons can chose their course and suffer the consequences ... it is indicated in the hazing creation gave to man in the shadow of the bush ... man has been taking a ribbing ever since.

Anthropomorphism is a matter of self-centered Ness ... a dark spirit in the Light of creation, but the power of the metaphor doesn't end there as lit Eire device of the imaginary realm of the mind. Some deny it and don't know where they are ...