Simple question

Why does media have to suck teens and children into their un realistic idea's that everyone has to skinny, sexual, popular, and most of all telling them THEY  have to be what they (media) want them to BE?

I have now found a congregation that welcomes a brains on approach to the bible, that is more open to diversity and focuses on love and acceptance rather than guilt, judging, and shame.  My dileman here is that after 3 yrs of attending I still haven't managed to seamlessly integrate the group.