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Pinga

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Seek first to understand, then to be understood

In a different thread, I suggested that a poster " moves to  solution, before listening to the questions, or thinking / dialoguing."

 

This thread will be an attempt to dialogue on that item, and so, I pulled one of the 7 habits of highly effective people as a topic.

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Why do you reply?

**Firstly, please keep responses ON TOPIC, there is no wrong answer so please do not respond about what anyone else responded to this thread **

When you reply to or post a thread on here, do you think you:

a) are often providing new information or a new outlook other than those posted already

b)  often find yourself sending 'I agree' type of responses, often letting people know they are not alone.

c) Find yourself asking questions to gain a better understanding of something you don't now fully understand.

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