i have this friend. this friend, her name is meghan, has a boyfriend. this boyfriend hates my guts and for reasons that i dont know. now would you stick with him if he began WW3 between him and your friends? i told meghan this and she just wont listen to me. I am a foster kid and i dont think it is right for him to facebook me and tell me off then tell me i dont know how to have real relationships. Then  on top of that he claims to be a Christain. and everyone can see he isn't living as he should be. walk out in public with him..

Have any of you tried online dating? Like eharmony or anything like that?

What was your experience? Have you or anyone you've known met and made a serious commitment to someone they met through these services?

Please be honest, I find it a bit embarassing to admit I've checked it out. But I don't think I could really take it seriously...what about you?

Why is trust such a huge issue. As we know, I am in a long distance relationship with someone and he lives in North Carolina. I have spent time with him twice and will admit that I do really love him. He got me through a lot of tough stuff and I can't ever thank him enough for that. He is my hero no matter what happens between us. I don't usually base my life around a man. I like having one, I like relationships and most of the things that go with it, but i also don't like the drama and the nonsense that can come along with it either.

 Coming from reading the strip club/lap dance discussion.  Let's take that actual activity out of the equation.  For me, having trust in my relationship is the biggest thing.  And lying is a sure way to lose that trust.

Would it be a deal breaker?  I don't know, I haven't been in that situation.  But if my husband lied, or omitted to tell me, about a significant thing, then I'd be pissed.  

My question is, are there any good or forgivable lies?  

When a relative comes over is it normal for them to bring their pets? 

I don't think that it is normal.  I am having an issue with a cousin of mine over this.  She has a yappy poodle.  I have a German Shepherd and a cat.  I would have to lock my pets up or they would kill hers.  My cousin wants to come and stay for two days. 

Would it be proper guest etiquette for me as the host to lock my pets in the basement or just absolutely forbid her to bring her dog?

I don't really know how to start here so I guess I'll just get straight to the point...y a

I am new to this site and I am here because I have to vent somewhere that some people aren't. I can't blog on my myspace because my boyfriend is on there and really I don't need to add more feul to the fire.